action speaks louder than words

Kids' language is their actions, their behaviors. Instead of only listening to their words, to what they are saying, it's actually better to look at their behavior, to observe in order to know what they are feeling and what they are thinking. We need to do the work to really understand and connect to the kids.

易的中庸

所謂的中庸，其實是因人因事而異。就像是在玩蹺蹺板，胖的人跟瘦的人不會坐在兩端，因為他們重量不一樣，胖的會往中間坐一點，才玩得起來。所以說中庸的拿捏是因人、因事、因地、因時而有不一樣的。並不是要找個「所有人都可以接受的」那是不可能的。

hangry

Hunger makes people more irritable, less able to decide, less able to think. It happens to people of all ages, especially kids, but it also affects adults as well. When I think someone else is being unreasonable, first check my condition.